How Families Can Work Together
Nov. 04, 2019
By Izzy Gonçalves
Over 15 years, my spouse and I struggled with her severe bipolar I disorder. We went through weeks-long psychiatric hospitalizations, disrupted relationships and stalled personal and professional goals. Eventually, I took grudging ownership of her treatment. We resented each other, and we didn’t work together.
I now know that the most effective treatment requires the person with the mental illness, their doctors and their supporters to work together. Frankly, through much of my spouse’s illness, I thought I knew better, and her doctor at the time reinforced it. Her doctor and I communicated directly and largely controlled her treatment. She became less secure in her treatment as her doctor and I became a team.